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Friday 12 April 2013

Marbella, an easy family holiday

It’s well known that there are a lot of wealthy people on the Costa Del Sol, and somewhere amongst them, the worlds most successful concrete salesmen live  a glamorous high life of fast cars, flash villas, and fun. They sold a lot of concrete. It coats the ground from the sea towards the mountains, and stretches skywards in a quest to occupy all three dimensions. Huge concrete highways connect the concrete airport in Marbella to the concrete hotels and resorts along the coast in a topography where concrete salesmen outnumber conservationists.

Cross the highway, and a different Spain opens up. Whilst the continuation of concrete suggests this is not exactly the “real” Spain, it is still real enough to have proper tapas for 5 people and get change from EUR50, then slip next door for crunchy Churros dipped in thick warm chocolate. English is barely spoken this side of the road, a world away from the holiday-makers across the road taking conference calls from the sun-loungers. As ever in a Spanish-speaking country, the combination of children and something kickable allows a game of football to initiate. Whilst more children join, more beer is drunk… and there goes another afternoon in the sunshine.

Flights and accommodation are plentiful and inexpensive, and activities for children boundless, making this part of Spain a reliable recipe for a pleasantly easy, if unadventurous, family holiday. And the beach itself, whilst only a thin strip between the concrete and the sea, is sandy and virtually deserted during our visit over Easter. The distant views of the romantic mountains of Morocco in the distance across the sea add a stunning backdrop to a lazy day.

We stayed in one of hundreds of very similar concrete timeshare resorts sandwiched between the concrete highway and the sea, chosen mainly because the apartment easily accommodated our family of five with two good bedrooms and a sofa bed in the living room.  The resort facilities included the standard set of indoor and outdoor swimming pools, restaurants and bars, a little football area and a kids club. Even with all that however, the most fun is to be had on the beach. The sea was just about warm enough over Easter for a swim, the sand was just firm enough for us to create our own fortifications, and the space enough to run around.

Despite our general idleness on this trip, we did one day set off with a plan and caught the bus along the concrete highway to Marbella, and its jolly pretty old town full of Orange Trees and shady passageways. A statue of the King commemorating the restoration of the monarchy reminds us that this modern European country was a dictatorship in our lifetimes.  Despite my fascinating lecture on twentieth century Spanish history, the children decide that getting ice-cream would be a more interesting option at this point. Both of the overpriced restaurants recommended by the resort are closed, so we follow a group of hungry looking builders into a café and order by pointing at neighbouring tables – and ate like – well – hungry builders.


But the holiday is mainly a good value week of quality time with children. We swim, we read, we play football, we colour in princess pictures, we eavesdrop on conference calls taken by the pool. We buy fresh food in the market across the road, and serve up on the balcony of the apartment having leisurely late evening meals all together. We talk to each other, often without shouting. The ipads and phones stayed locked in the safe forgotten about. And at the end of the week, we follow the concrete strip back to the airport and home, having properly unwound ourselves.